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Account & Profile Setup

Getting to know your profile

  • Change Gender

    You can change your gender if, for example, you're transitioning, or you chose the wrong one in the sign-up process. Click here to send a request to change your gender. Note: You can only change gende...

  • Activation Link

    The activation link is for one-time use only to activate your account. You can then log in with your (chosen) nickname (user name) and password....

  • Online Status Not Accepted

    When you log in via the URL www.fetish.com/login, you can specify an ‘online status’. If you select ‘like last time’ the online status of your last login will be selected automatically.  However, this...

  • No Activation Link

    The causes could be: The email address you entered when you registered is incorrect. Our system email has been moved to the spam folder by your provider (please check there). If you cannot find the em...

  • Stay Logged In Not Working

    If you don't get automatically logged in, despite having selected the option 'Stay logged in', it may be because your browser's cookies were deleted since your previous visit. Some browsers delete the...

  • More Profile Reviews

    Take your time Your profile is your chance to present yourself to other members. Your profile is you! So take your time creating and filling out your profile. It 's worth it. Show your face Your chanc...

  • Delete Status Update

    Deleting a status update is simple.  Once you've created a status update (either from your profile or via the home page) it appears in the Newsfeed.  To delete it, go to the Newsfeed and select the op...

  • Meaning Of Stay Logged In

    If you select the Stay logged in option, you will not have to log in again with your user name and password the next time you visit, but can enter the member area immediately....

  • Settings for the "Who is online" list

    Here you can set the exact postcode area from which other members should be displayed in the Who's online list. Please note that too many age groups and postcode areas will sometimes produce too many ...

  • ‘About Me’ Description

    You can enter a description text here. The content of the text must be formulated in a youth-friendly manner, as your profile advert will also be displayed to members without an age check. Please do n...